This summer we celebrated ten years of marriage. It feels more like a decade though. I tried multiple times to write out what it meant to me but it got too personal to post. I think though, it can be summed up like this: there were grand moments and glorious moments and moments that felt like our souls were getting torn apart, but in the end we had each other and so we had everything.
I don’t believe in the traditional view of soul-mates. I don’t believe there was one destined to be mine since the beginning of time. But I do believe that in finding him I found something magical and my awe in that knowing leaves my speechless. There is something sacred in realizing that another human being has a bit of your heart tucked into their own.
If I had to do the last ten years over, I…